It never fails. As January comes to a close and February quickly approaches, single women across the world join together in a unified panic. Holy crap, I just can't be single on Valentines Day!! My argument... Why Not!?
This will be my first single Valentines Day in 8 years. (Holy cow, that's a little ridiculous). And honestly, I'm not that freaked out about it. I mean really, what's the big deal? Now trust me, I get it. Every woman wants that giddy feeling of receiving her favorite flowers and chocolates. (Stargazer Lilies, and Dove Milk Chocolate. Ha ha, just kidding...maybe... Or am I?) No but seriously, I do get it. Everyone wants to feel special. My challenge for you is, why should you restrict yourself to feeling special one day out of the year. One measly day! And more importantly, who on earth has taught you that you need the affections of a man to make you feel special!! Now I admit, I must practice what I preach, and I know what I am saying is much easier said then done. But really, I promise, you ARE special without a man. Besides, the right man will make every day valentines day. In the way he looks at you, talks to you, cares for you. Why settle for the mad dash dating game of finding someone to do a half-done job for one day. So simmer down pimpen, your time will come! Instead of freaking out about being single for one day out of the year. Spend your valentines day loving on others! Send your best friend flowers. Or go love on yourself. Treat yourself to a spa day or time to relax. Just don't get bogged down in the melodramatic soap opera that valentines day has become.
I promise, it's not a big deal!
This will be my first single Valentines Day in 8 years. (Holy cow, that's a little ridiculous). And honestly, I'm not that freaked out about it. I mean really, what's the big deal? Now trust me, I get it. Every woman wants that giddy feeling of receiving her favorite flowers and chocolates. (Stargazer Lilies, and Dove Milk Chocolate. Ha ha, just kidding...maybe... Or am I?) No but seriously, I do get it. Everyone wants to feel special. My challenge for you is, why should you restrict yourself to feeling special one day out of the year. One measly day! And more importantly, who on earth has taught you that you need the affections of a man to make you feel special!! Now I admit, I must practice what I preach, and I know what I am saying is much easier said then done. But really, I promise, you ARE special without a man. Besides, the right man will make every day valentines day. In the way he looks at you, talks to you, cares for you. Why settle for the mad dash dating game of finding someone to do a half-done job for one day. So simmer down pimpen, your time will come! Instead of freaking out about being single for one day out of the year. Spend your valentines day loving on others! Send your best friend flowers. Or go love on yourself. Treat yourself to a spa day or time to relax. Just don't get bogged down in the melodramatic soap opera that valentines day has become.
I promise, it's not a big deal!